Infidelity / Cheating Spouse Investigation

Do you have a cheating spouse, future spouse, or significant other seeing someone else? Are you worried about a divorce settlement or child custody issues? Do you really have reasons to be concerned? The worry can affect your entire world – how you react at work, at home, with friends and family. It affects your health, how you eat, how you sleep (or don’t sleep). The fear and, yes, the anger, drain your energy and numb your spirit. Nothing is more draining than the fear that you are living with a cheating lover or that you are living with a spouse engaging in infidelity.

Infidelity, Adultery, Cheating, Being Unfaithful, Having an Affair or whatever you care to call it, is likely to be one of the most painful and devastating things that can happen to you. Not knowing if your spouse is cheating on you or not is equally as painful. Even the prospect of a loved one being unfaithful is painful and extremely disruptive.

Unfortunately, once someone seriously suspects infidelity, more often than not, their suspicions are correct. Statistics say that 85% of women who feel their lover is cheating are correct and 50% of men who feel their lover is cheating are right. If you have suspicious, consider some of the following and be as impartial as possible.

The signs of a cheating lover may include:

• Spending unusual amounts of time away from home.
• Suddenly deciding to work late or go back to work.
• Increasingly difficult to reach by phone.
• Unexplained payments on bank statements
• Looking around constantly when you are out together
• Suddenly deciding not to go somewhere or dodging some place.
• Wanting to know your schedule and where you will go.
• Not returning calls in a reasonable time.
• Having private conversations on the phone.
• Checking voice mail privately.
• Unusually long calls.
• Keeping the cell phone off or on vibrate.
• Showing a change in the frequency (more/less) of sex.
• Having unusual smells (cologne, perfume) on clothes
• Seeming lost in thought more often.
• Using the computer in private more often.
• Changing passwords on the computer or other accounts.
• Securing their laptop computer from you.
• Finding reasons not to be intimate.
• Getting defensive or angry over questions about activities.
• Developing a moody attitude.
• Suddenly becoming exuberant and happy/ angry for no reason.
• Neglecting you and the home.
• Changes in schedules and habits that have been kept for years.
• Traveling more often than before.

Many times, email, messenger activity, and other communication mediums are a part of the infidelity investigation process. Several members of our investigations team also consult for our computer forensics and internet use service group and can help advise you on how to discover and use our investigations with your discovery process.